That was a song a long time ago. The question is how something that makes you feel the best also makes you hurt the worst. When it says until death you do part in our marriage vows, does that mean when one dies the love does too? Not even close. Some people, present company included, believe that when you love someone and they love you that a part of their soul joins yours and part of yours joins theirs. With that arrangement when a loved one dies, part of you dies too, but, part of them also continues to love in you.

One thinks of a spouse, but any family member or friend will work the s...